One More Thing

Just one more story with a wedding theme. Earlier this fall, there was a wedding in my church. Katelyn (11) was informing me that she didn't like weddings and didn't want to go with us.

Me - Are you going to go to your own wedding?
Katelyn - Yes, but no one else can come.
Me - How about the groom?
Katelyn - He can come.
Me - Can I come?
Katelyn - If you're still alive, you can come.
Me - What do you mean if I'm still alive? How old do you think I'm going to be when you get married?
Katelyn - I don't know......old?
Me - How am I going to die?
David (12) - PLASTIC SURGERY!

Ummmmm....I don't think David is going to make it until his 13th birthday!
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It's Just a Day

Let me start off by saying that I thoroughly enjoyed my wedding day. I didn't micro-manage everything and I didn't worry about everything going perfectly. I was able to completely enjoy it all. Even when my veil almost caught on fire, blowing out the unity candle. Shannon also started to put my veil back over my head after our wedding kiss as if he had changed his mind. We still laugh about this!

I use to joke that the only reason I wanted a wedding, as opposed to eloping, was for the photos. Here's a few of mine.

(I put this picture because I think I look thin!)

There are a few things I would change about my wedding if the wedding were to happen tomorrow.

1. My dress

2. My hair (Hey, I was just getting good at that "poof" before I realized it had been out of style for half a decade.)

3. The man who married us. (It wasn't Pastor Y)

4. 3 out of 5 of my bridesmaids (We are just not close anymore)

5. The reception - where it was

6. The rehearsal dinner

7. The photographer (They're out of business)

8. The bridesmaid's dresses (I thought it was something they could wear again. Don't most brides think that?)

9. The flowers (Not the people that arranged them. They did great.)

10. The color scheme

11. The tuxes (They would still wear tuxes, but I would do away with the bow ties)

12. The reception - decoration (I would put more time into the decorations.)

13. The guest book pen (It had the wrong date on it - long story)

One thing I wouldn't change......THE GROOM. It's not about the wedding day. It's about the marriage. It doesn't really matter what kind of dress you have, or if you have the right flowers ...it's just a day. It's more important to prepare for the marriage than it is the wedding.

I said all that to say this. If you are not already married, go ahead and plan a great wedding. I do recommend that you keep it simple. You'll enjoy the day more. Spend much more time preparing for the marriage. Say "yes" to the right guy not just the first guy that asks or because you want to be married. Wait for the one God has for you. Can you imagine how awful it would be if I looked back and wanted a different groom? Start praying now for your future groom. Not just that you'll just find one, but that you'll find the "right" one. Pray for your future marriage

I was blessed to marry the man God had for me at 22, but I'd like to think I would have patiently waited if that was God's plan.

If you're already married, dig out your wedding pictures if you have them. Admire them.Post a few. I love looking at wedding photos. Remember how thrilled you were that day. I sometimes miss the "newness" of married life, but it's so much better now. We've grown closer together over the years and I can't wait to know him better in years to come.

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Left in a Closet

First off, you need to know, that my brother bought my parent's house. The house I grew up in. Secondly, his wife is due to have their second baby in February. They finally got around to cleaning out the third bedroom in anticipation of the new arrival. In the closet of that bedroom they found this.....

My wedding dress. It was the second dress that I tried on and I fell in love with it. At the time, it was exactly what I was looking for in a wedding dress, down to the long sleeves and the "puffs" at the shoulder..


My mom made my veil. I just couldn't see spending top dollar on a store bought veil. I was looking for simple. It was getting close to the wedding and my mom was getting anxious about the veil. I told her to just put lace around the sheer fabric and attach it to a decorated barrette. I think it took her all of 20 minutes to complete, and I loved it.

It's not the wedding dress I would buy if I were getting married tomorrow, but I remember how much I loved it at the time. I dearly wish I could try it on. Sadly, I've gained enough weight to make this impossible. I might be able to get my leg in it, I'll have to see.

Now, this poor dress is shoved in my closet, but really where else would I put it?

A Special Song

Tonight we had a special party for all the ladies who help to keep our church clean. Amy "won" one of the games and had the privilege to sing "Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer". I just happen to have video of this event. I'm sure she won't mind if I share.(Really, Amy...it's OK. You trust me don't you? Don't answer that!)

Thanks for the wisk, Stacy. We wisk you a Merry Christmas, too! Tell Courtney thanks for the bean bag. Katelyn already took it away from me and claimed it for herself. Missed you tonight.

WHAT?!

So a package arrived yesterday. It was big and it was from Cabela's. Usually when my husband orders something, I'm told to expect a package. This was a surpise. It was an even greater surprise when my beloved husband informed me that it was my Christmas present.

WHAT?! My Christmas present is from Cabela's! Sweetheart, what are you thinking?!

Now, I'm not a girly-girl, but I'm not a Cabela's girl ,either. Do you know what they sell at Cabela's? Outdoor stuff. I'm just not that kind of girl.

He's told me that it is something that I specifically requested. We shall see, honey, we shall see.

My husband may need your prayers. I'll let you know December 26th. ;)

It's a start...

Well, we've been in our house for over a year and a half, and it's just starting to feel like our home. I'm slow to put up our decoration and such for the simple fact that I procrastinate. Also, I have NO skill in decorating. Still little by little, I'll have Shannon put up this or hang up that. It may not be worthy of a magazine cover, but the house is slowly feeling like a ours.

I did not put up this picture because of the skill of the decorator, obviously. This wall now has more meaning than it did before.
1. Shannon's Grandpa G made the quilt rack.
2. My Grandma M made the quilt, just for me.
3. The bench belonged to my Great-Grandma B.
4. The house itself was built by my Grandma and Grandpa T.

Tagged...

About 2 (or 3 or 4) weeks ago, I was tagged!

This picture was taken at the end of July, but it was my fourth picture posted for the month of August. Katelyn got to choose 3 friends to take to Sea Breeze Amusement park in honor of her 10th birthday.

While looking at this picture, I realized, once again, what a great guy I married. He willingly came with me to watch over 4 pre-teen girls. Could I have done this myself? Sure, but I felt much safer with my man there with us. About a month earlier, he was injured during a basketball game. He had torn the ACL in his knee, yet he walked that park with us regardless of the pain. Just one of the many reasons why I love this man!

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Thanks for the "tag" Dawn. It helped me relive a fond memory, and reminded me how blessed I am.

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I guess I'm suppose to tag someone next. Stacy...you're it. Go back 4 months and find your 4th picture that month. Post that picture and write a little about it. This is an order. If you don't do this something bad will happen on the second Tuesday of next week. :)

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Thanks for the comment, Amy. A post just isn't complete with out a comment from you. ;)

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